Friday, September 4, 2026

Modern loneliness

 

Roy Lee runs seven software products with just two engineers, and almost every one makes over a million dollars a year. He says his company operates unlike anything he has seen. AI collapsed the gap between a beginner and a veteran, he says. A complete novice can now write the same quality of code a senior engineer used to. A product that once took 20 engineers six months, one person can spin up in a free afternoon. — Roy Lee, founder of Cluely, on the Jack Neel (.) podcast


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Roy Lee says loneliness is the single biggest problem of our generation, and AI is not what caused it.

On Jack Neel's podcast, he broke down the 5 real reasons this is happening to an entire generation:

1) Dating apps made romance winner-take-all

Dating apps broke the natural way people meet, he says.

When all you see is a photo, all you judge is looks.

So every average guy is now competing against the top 1 percent of men.

In the village you competed with the quarterback. Now you compete with Shaquille O'Neal.

2) Social media and COVID destroyed connection

Everyone blames AI for male loneliness, he says. He disagrees.

AI has almost nothing to do with it, he says.

Trace it back, and 80 percent is social media and COVID. They rewired how an entire generation connects.

3) Some men haven't spoken to anyone in weeks

He does not say this lightly. There are guys right now who have not had a real conversation in weeks.

He knows the feeling.

After high school, he spent a whole year at his parents' house and met no one new.

4) Half of young men are going without sex

The result is a generation opting out, he says.

By his numbers, half of men aged 18 to 30 have not had sex this year.

People sit glued to their phones, barely talking. This is not how humans were built to connect, he says.

5) So men are turning to AI girlfriends

Into that gap stepped the AI girlfriend, he says. The apps print money:

• Character AI hit 100 million fast

• Millions talk to them daily

• Men confess what they told no one

Still, he says they are dwarfed by social media.

TL;DR:

1) Dating apps made romance winner-take-all

2) Social media and COVID destroyed connection

3) Some men haven't spoken to anyone in weeks

4) Half of young men are going without sex

5) So men are turning to AI girlfriends

I appreciate you for making it to the end.

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